In which I must be famous now

The Internets are a funny thing. It’s a great tool of connection – after all, I’ve got “friends” in Facebook from high school in Calgary, youth ministry in Texas, message boards I’ve frequented and so on. But it can also be a bit isolating. After all, you read a blog and that person never knows you read it. Or conversely, they read your blog and you never know that they did.
I don’t like lurkers on my own blog much. After all, it’s a little discouraging when you write and toil, get over 150 hits but only three or four comments.
But I have a confession….I, myself, am a terrible lurker.
I read a lot of blogs. Some people watch TV. Other people play video games. I like to read blogs. I subscribe to an embarrassing number of and diverse selection of blogs through Google Reader. My ongoing favourites are the Missional Tribe gang. I have read their blogs for a while now, lurking, rarely commenting. I joined Missional Tribe, even started a blog there and posted a few entries.
But I felt so out of place. After all, I post pictures of my tinies a lot, write the occasional poop story and generally write a blog that is one part Mommy Blog, one part Theology Blog and one part “Who the heck knows?” Blog. So I went back to lurking in anonymity.
So it was a pleasant surprise this morning to find that a big favourite of mine, Brother Maynard, of Subversive Influence fame out in Winnipeg gave me a shout out! (Actually, downright shocking. Me, reading through, suddenly sputtering and shrieking and Brian being all “So a blogger mentioned you, so what?” and me all “YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND, YOU NON-BLOGGER!”)
It’s not quite a celebrity experience but I’ll settle for it.
I hope I don’t let the fame go to my head.
Hi, Brother Maynard! I’m a big fan! Thanks for stopping by!

  • Sarah

    Congrats. I totally relate to all of this. But this is also why I try to leave comments when I read a blog, so that people know I’ve been there…even if they don’t care. I love getting comments so why shouldn’t I give them?
    5/7/2009 2:20 PM Brittaney delete reply Cool shout out you got there!! Love it,and get your excitement over it!! I comment mostly on my xanga subscriptions, and I’m a lurker on most of the other blogs I read. I think when I go to the super popular blogs, the ones with 100s of comments on them, I just figure why bother, mine will get lost in the mix. Perhaps I should re think that!!
    5/7/2009 2:49 PM Tasia007 (message) block delete reply I don’t know… I think I”m with Brian… after all, it’s only Brother Maynard, not like it’s a real blogger! ;^)

    Keep up the good stuff.
    5/7/2009 3:04 PM Brother Maynard (site) delete reply I’m totally with you on this. It’s the greatest honor between one blogger and another. And only we bloggers get that….
    5/7/2009 6:50 PM joyandryan (message) block delete reply Your’s is my favourite blog. I so missed you during your lent break.

    Just saying… 5/8/2009 9:19 PM Tez_T (message) block delete reply Very cool!

    From, The Ultimate Lurker
    5/9/2009 11:31 AM mandy_styles (message) block delete reply