We face a forest from our bedroom and the blinds are never closed so I need only look out the window from the nest of my bed to see skeleton trees clad in heavy white. The man that I teased last night about the appearance of grey hairs brings our morning boy to our bed, followed closely by a pixie girl whispering about snowfall. 

Like almost every morning, we are a ritual, little girl to my right, little boy to my left, the foundation of it all curled around us, his eyes closed. We are watching the snow fall and when the wind moves the trees, the girl informs her little brother with great superiority that the trees are dancing. She absently strokes my face, the same way she used to do when she was just a wee baby with a triangle shaped mouth and my boy holds my hair in his fist again, they are both mine still for just a while longer and I’m trying to count the moments on a string of jewels.

We all lay together in the heavy silence of snow and winter.

He props himself up on an elbow and takes it in, my arms around them both, their whisperings about dancing trees and snow forts, plans for breakfast and pleas for back scratches, the way I am on my left side because of the weight of new life coming soon. 

There isn’t much of a dreamy magazine cover about the scene. Our sheets are old and I forgot to wash my face last night so I have a bit of mascara smudged around my eyes. We’re in our jammies and we need to brush our teeth, all of us.  But the light is flooding the room and the weight of all this is flooding my soul and I know that he sees it the way I see it.

“You look like an earth mother, all these babies,” he teases. “Like you’re the life source of us all.”

In a way, it’s true, isn’t it, mamas? That these tiny ones mimic, that their hearts are settled when my heart is settled, when I spill love and patience they are filled, that I am – inexplicably, amazingly, sometimes frighteningly – the influence sweeping them with me, one moment a river of life and the next a rooted oak and the next withering for water still, ever needing just enough for today. And when I take the time to savor, they savor.

When I have eyes to see, ears to hear, a voice of peace, somehow we all see, hear and still.

When it’s enough for me, they somehow believe this is enough for us all.

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  • I am struck by this same thought at odd times, that I nourish and sustain and comfort every single member of my little family. And somehow remembering that I am the center doesn’t feel self-important at all, but impossibly, achingly humbling.

    • And somehow remembering that I am the center doesn’t feel self-important at all, but impossibly, achingly humbling. <—- Yes! That, exactly.

  • I just discovered your blog the other day through Deeper Story and I have to say that I LOVE it! I’ve been reading through some of your different posts and agree with you over and over again. As with this post and many others, you write beautifully and always make me stop and think. Thank you!

  • KathleenBasi

    This is just beautiful, Sarah. Just beautiful.

  • Thanks for the few peaceful minutes. So sweet.

  • There’s so much that I love about this post, Sarah. You DO make it sound romantic … I appreciate your perspective–how you are looking at motherhood from a higher view. Beautiful.

    • Well, sometimes a girl has got to come up a few thousand feet to get some perspective – particularly when the full cereal bowl has just hit the floor for the third time. 😉

  • Stephanie

    Yes. So true. And you just convicted me – big time. Thank you for that.